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And Counting with Steve & Alyssa McMasters

Marriage is challenging, we get it. But what if we told you the standard of two people giving up their own lives to become one is outdated? What if your marriage is supposed to be fun, open, sexy and liberating rather than the “old ball and chain that ruins your life forever?” What if we changed the narrative that marriage and parenting is 50/50 to 100/100? Join Alyssa and Steve McMasters (married for 2 years And Counting…) as they share hilarious dating tips, inspirational marriage lessons and mediocre parenting advice with the witty banter you would hope for from a couple in their 30s who send out a half naked Christmas card each year. If you are looking for dating, marriage or parenting advice that goes against the status quo, or you just need some relatable laughs on your drive to work, this show is for you.

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And Counting with Steve & Alyssa McMasters

How open communication about previous sexual experiences can bring more passion to the bedroom

December 22, 2022 • Alyssa & Steve McMasters • Season 1 • Episode 4

Shame is the killer of pleasure, yet shame and pleasure are known to go hand in hand in our society. We are told that when we experience sexual pleasure we should be quite about it and when a future partner asks, we should pretend that they are the only person we have ever been with to make them think they are the only person in the world. Hallmark tells us this is romantic, I call bullshit.

This podcast is NSFW, do what feels best for you with this information.

You have options when it comes to your sexual history. You can share as much or as little as you would like with your partner/partners (with safety in mind) and all of those options are valid. This podcast explores an option that is not typically praised in our society. What would it look like if you shared all of your sexual experiences with your partner and rather than feeling shameful about them, feeling liberated? What would it feel like to tell your partner what you liked and didn't like from previous experiences so you could create stellar new experiences?

Sex doesn't have to be dirty word, you are allowed to scream it from the rooftops, or whisper it, this podcast explores that this open communication around sex is not for everyone, but is an option that might feel good for you!